Being a Queer Man is Hard Enough Without Explaining It

Online and In-Person Queer-Centered Therapy in Los Angeles

Navigating a hostile world zaps you of the energy you need for your big goals.

You want deep connection in your relationships, satisfying sex, a sense of community with your friends, and badass progress at work.

You have stressors the straight world just doesn’t get.

You’ve sacrificed, said goodbye to toxic people, and learned which zip codes to avoid.

And yet, despite what you’ve overcome, there’s a shameful feeling from the past that tells you – “you’re not good enough.”

Give yourself the support of someone who gets you.

As an LGBTQ therapist, I understand that our stress experiences are unique.

In our sessions, you’ll find a validating space that frees you up to explore your hopes and dreams openly.

I’ll guide you through an exploration of your story and the subconscious pain that’s holding you back.

I’ll walk you through exercises to retrain your fight-or-flight response to stay off when you don’t need it!

I’ll help you rediscover the inner power to reclaim the title of main character in your life.

You have too much to offer to keep hiding.

Explore a version of yourself that amplifies your strength in the office.

You’ll leave our sessions with a newfound ability to quiet chaotic thoughts and open the path to confidence in conflicts with family.

Experience your inherent strength to pave progress in your communication with friends.

Succeed in emotional regulation tools that will open the doors to greater connectedness and more satisfying sex.

Rediscover your pride.

You’re here because you want a better life for yourself.

Experience the peace that comes from loving and honoring yourself.

Embrace your inner strength and conquer your goals!

Fill out my quick contact form to schedule your free 15-Minute consultation.

Testimonials

Michael Pezzullo

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is a truly gifted clinician, for both individuals and couples. His attachment-focused perspective allows him to attune to each client’s unique needs. I highly recommend his therapeutic approach.”

Jessica Martindale

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“I had the opportunity to go to grad school with Gavin and found him to have one of the voices I most wanted to hear. He has an ability to get to the heart of the matter quickly. And, his intelligence and wisdom is only out-matched by his warmth.“

David Leong

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is a therapist whose exceptional compassion heals emotional wounds. Whether starting a new therapeutic journey or in a lifelong struggle, Gavin’s serene and compassionate presence will empower and uplift you on your path of self-discovery.”

Michael Mann

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is a wonderful human being who has been a gift to both me as a colleague and his larger community of therapists. My experience spending time with him is often made up of deep warmth and care accented by moments of laughter and joy.”

Dr. Leslie Wright

Psychologist, PsyD

“Gavin gets it. He’s an attuned listener and authentic in his approach. It’s rare to find a therapist so genuinely at ease with any topic at any time.”

Joe Hovemeyer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is skilled at helping men identify and work through difficulties with anxiety. I trust him as a referral source and can speak to my personal experience of Gavin as a warm, insightful and authentic person, all traits that are crucial in a therapist.”

Kristi Wollbrink

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin’s warm and caring personality will make you feel at ease the moment you walk through the door. His authenticity brings a sense of deep empowerment and support as he so naturally creates space for you to feel heard and valued.”

Dr. Jeff Creely

Psychologist, PhD

“Gavin is an exceptional therapist. He’s thoughtful, kind, and perceptive. He offers a wide range of skills; practical tools balanced with a depth of understanding and compassion. I’d highly recommend him.”

Emily Donavon

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is a trustworthy guide as you explore issues of identity and relationships- he is consistent, understanding, and well-researched.”

Dr. Connor McClenahan

Psychologist, PsyD

“If you’re looking for counseling Gavin is the right choice. I highly recommend him and refer to him often. He has great training and intuition that will help you overcome the blocks in your life.”

Dr. Shannon Thomas

Psychologist, PsyD

“Gavin’s warmth and calming presence shines through as a therapist. He creates a holding environment for clients to release their struggles and anxieties as he compassionately and skillfully collaborates with them to work towards their treatment goals.”

Samuel Kim

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin has a very calming and comforting presence. He is very approachable and has great insight.”

Caitlin Harrison

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin is so good at what he does! He has immense knowledge, expertise, and training that allows him to provide confident and capable care for each of his clients. He prioritizes a good fit with clients which assists him in providing top care.”

Greg Kilpatrick

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

“Gavin is a fantastic therapist with a strong ability to connect with his clients while also having a keen clinical mind. I never hesitate to refer to him”

Cyla Fisk

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PMH-C

“If you’re looking for a thoughtful and skilled therapist with a highly attuned and grounding presence, you’re in the right place! I highly recommend Gavin’s services.”

Mady Snyder

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

“Gavin creates a safe space for clients to explore their experiences and move toward growth. Gavin is both compassionate and understanding, guiding you toward insight that will lead to improved relationships and feeling more connected to yourself.”

Dr. Melissa Winfield

Psychologist, PsyD

“Gavin is a compassionate and experienced therapist! I would recommend him to people who want to improve their relationship and grow in their ability to communicate. He does a great job with individuals struggling with stress, anxiety and identity.”

Seohyun Joo

Registered Psychological Assistant

“Gavin genuinely cares for each and every one of his clients and does amazing couple’s work no matter what you need help with in your relationship with your significant other and loved ones!”

Kayla Farner

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

“Gavin is gifted in connecting deeply while maintaining a strong understanding of how to help with mental health needs. This pairing offers reassurance for any client fortunate enough to work with him on the levels of emotion, competence, and safety.”


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